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Philadelphia Weekly:It’s a hot summer night on South Street but it’s cool and dark inside Tritone bar, where the lineup is a rowdy variety showcase of GLBTQ acts. Musician Steph Hayes hangs out offstage, waiting to be introduced. It’s a bit of sly showmanship, really—everyone in this bawdy crowd already knows Steph.

In the years since first breaking out in the early 1990s with seminal Philly band Stargazer Lily, Hayes has graced almost every local stage and countless others across the country while playing in different projects: There’s the solo stuff, sometimes with back-up band the Good Problems, plucking bass with Chris Schutz and the Tourists, plus a regular gig singing back-up alongside Stargazer Lily co-founder Sue Rosetti for slide-guitar impresario Slo-Mo.

Socially, a relaxed rock-star swagger and a chiseled porcelain face has long made Hayes a heartthrob to lesbians in this town.

But while almost everyone in Philadelphia knows Steph Hayes, it’s just now becoming common knowledge that for years, Hayes struggled with a secret burden.

The drum rolls theatrically. With all the gusto of a commenter calling a boxing match, the host announces, for one of the first times ever in public, the artist formerly known as Steph Hayes.

Introducing Mr. Stephan Hayes!” the host trills.

As Hayes starts to play, the physical changes from seven months of hormone replacement therapy are noticeable: The shape of his face has changed; its skin is rough. He’s broader and more muscular from a regimen of push-ups to build up pectoral muscles. In more ways than one, Stephan Hayes (pronouced Steph-in) is a new man.

The 37-year-old singer straps on his signature Guild acoustic with the blue-star-studded guitar strap and rips through catalogue favorite “Big, Big Dreams.”

I get home yesterday, happy that I had located my cell phone I misplaced 24 hrs before. I had fretted and panicked all day thinking the worst and dreaming about upgrading from a phone that already did everything to one that did everything that I hadn’t even thought of yet. I was finally calm and at peace with the world when I walked through the door smiling holding up my phone. I didn’t even get to say anything before this scene was laid before my eyes:

1) GIANT hurricane picture moving on the t.v. weather channel.

2) List my girlfriend had made me including getting batteries, candles and filling the tub with water.

3) Open pet catalog with thunder shirt for dogs page displayed.

She comes up from the basement and announces, “The mayor says it will be the worst storm in our lifetime. We need to bring everything in from outside and raise everything up higher in the basement. We will also need cash and we need to fill both cars with gas. What do you want me to get from the store in case the power goes out?”

In her defense she is a veteran ICU nurse at a major hospital here in Philly and they were ramping up from DefCon 1 to 5 for the hurricane. Obviously we were too.

Here is my list of things I will do to get ready for Hurricane Irene:

1) Watch the weather channel every once in a while just to say, “Holy sh*t. That thing is huge. Thank God we didn’t plan a trip to the Outer Banks this week.”

2) Make sure the cable to the tv doesn’t go out no matter what. We just purchased a new 50 inch HD tv and I plan on watching a lot of B-Horror flicks this weekend. I will carry a saw, clippers and those knee things to climb on the roof and cut limbs, etc. even during gale force winds to do this. My girlfriend can wrap a rope around my waist if she gets concerned. Heaven knows she’s hoarded enough sutures and lidocain to sew me back up if I take a tumble.

3) I will not fill the tub with water. What if I want to take a shower? I will poop in the litter box with our new kitten if flushing becomes a problem. We have the scoopable kind so it shouldn’t be a problem.

4) Check ALL the liquor bottles and go to the store and buy more anyway. Get peanut butter, one loaf of whole wheat bread and lots of mixers for the alcohol. It looks tacky if you just guzzle hard liquor without cutting it with something, even if that something is an olive.

5) Put on my own thundershirt…

 

Witness the devastation. Thanks for all your calls and kind words.

GPhilly: Ann Bannon’s pulp novels about Beebo Brinker, a lesbian living in Greenwich Village in the 1950s and 60s, were unlike anything the world had seen when they were published more than a half-century ago. They became a favorite among lesbian literary lovers looking for a glimpse into what life was like before the Stonewall Riot in 1969. All six of the books were adapted for the stage three years ago by playwrights Kate Moira Ryan and Linda S. Chapman to rave reviews. Most recently, the play’s being produced in Philly as part of GayFest, the newest LGBT theatre festival kicking off Aug. 12. As Ryan enjoys packed houses in New York for her latest project The Judy Show, starring lesbian comedian Judy Gold, we talked to her about what it was like bringing Beebo back to life, and what today’s lesbians might have in common with their fictional “foresisters.” Read more

PhillyMag: Today, May 17, is the Pennsylvania primary, which means it’s time for registered Republicans and Democrats to head to the polls in Philly. On the fence? Here are five reasons why this election is important to the LGBT community.

1. Voters have the opportunity to elect the first openly gay and/or lesbian to city council this year: Sherrie Cohen (Democrat) and Malcolm Lazin (Republican). If either of these candidates win, it would be the first time ever that an openly gay person holds a seat on city council in Philly.

2. Openly gay Christopher Mallios is running for judge. Mallios is the District Attorney’s LGBT liaison and hate crime coordinator. He’s also a member of the William Way Community Center. If he’s elected, he would be the third openly gay judge to be elected in Philly. Currently, Ann Butchart and Dan Anders both have judgeships in the city.

3. Several straight allies to the LGBT community are also hoping to hold onto their seats in Philly, including Blondell Reynolds Brown (she proposed legislation so that same-sex couples working for the city may be covered by healthcare) and Vern Anastasio (he’s a former staffer of the Philadelphia Human Relations Commission and encouraged the first same-sex ceremony at City Hall).

4. While gay marriage isn’t on the ballot in Pennsylvania, several candidates support the measure and have been outspoken about other gay rights issues impacting Philly. Jeff Hornstein, who’s running for council, vows to advocate for LGBT Philadelphians in a big way. Also affiliated with the LGBT community is Maria Quinones Sanchez who has worked closely with GALEI over the years and employes several openly gay and lesbian staff people.

5. Joe Grace is running for City Council. He not only opposes the Boy Scout deal that would essentially sell the property by the city to the scouts for a fraction of what its worth even though the group discriminates against gay members, but he wants to do away with SEPTA’s gender status on transit passes. His campaign manager is also openly gay.

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